Conflicts In A Relationship

Often than not we face conflicts in our relationships with our partners because we feel hurt.
Today Dr Lovey Wee is gonna bring you through a journey to look at the word Hurt from a different light by reading it back to front. This will help couples build stronger and more loving and appreciative realationships.


H- Humiliated
I feel humiliated when he/she says certain thing or act differently. Its terrible, why is he/she like that, i just don't understand. It hurts my pride and ego.

U- Unreasonable
How can he/she be impossible, come on i already did what i could to sustain this relationship but he's/she's still like that

R - Reactive
This is too much how can he/she say such thing, thats not the way. He/She should not have mention it in the first place

T - Tempermental
He/She is just too sensitive, thats not what i meant but he/she reads it that way what can i do. I think my tone is alright. He/She is overreacting


Isnt it true many times thats how we react to the situation and HURT our partners. Insteading our focusing on those words that will affect our relationships with one another. Why don't we turn the word around and read it from back to front - this is how it goes.


T- Tenderness
Show tender loving care to our partners

R - Respond
Instead of reacting to whatever he/she says, why don't we respond and try to listen to what his/her heart is saying. Sometimes whatever that comes out from his/her mouth might not be what he/she actually means.

U - Understanding
Try to be more understanding towards him/her. No one wants to be difficult and destroy a relationship. When we try to understand his/her better it will definately help strengthen the relationship


H - Humility
Exercise humility all the time, esteeming each other higher than yourselves and putting each other before yourself this will definately bring the relationship far. Many of times is because we want our rights that causes us to affect our partners.


We just turn HURT to TRUH and we add a T (representing Christ) TRUTH - When we have Christ in the picture everything else changes.

When we have the TRUTH, it will set us free all the difficulties, conflicts and struggles in a relationship.

Lets stop HURTING and start demostrating the TRUTH in our lives so as to glorify God in our relationships with our partners.

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